Thursday, June 11, 2020

ME AND MY OWN WAY

Hati kena keras dan kental.
.
Bilamana yg baru kenal dan follow mengeluarkan kata kata mcm daku ni
...cakap kasar dgn anak anak
...daku ni queen control
...dan anak anak memendam rasa mcm tak happy
...dan mcm2 lg

Dan macam macam lagi.

My way and your way tak sama. 
If you were raised in a background where your mom lemah lembut gemalai and do everything for you but behind your back she is crying herself out...then that is your mom's way.
We were not raised that way. We were raised in a garang, police way by our mom and dad. We were raised that everything must be done quickly and to be able to be a multi tasking person.

So yes..dont compare your way and my way...coz if I follow your way....I wouldnt be who I am today and my kids wont be what they are today.

Terms queen control depends on how your mind think. In a house, there is a need of a queen who manage what is going on in the house, the house chores, the family budget, the education of the kids etc. Without a queen, a house has not rule.With a lembik queen, berendam airmata jelah bila anak anak buat kerja pun slow lembik mcm takde stamina.

Stop comparing and being judgemental when you dont really know that person. 

But obviously ramai yg suka menambah dosa bilamana ikut sukahati jer buat pengamatan sendiri. Sukahati lah labu..masuk mata kiri keluar mata kanan..aa mcm tu lar bila daku TER baca komen² tak selidik dulu main hentam kromo ni...daku senyum je baca komen komen ni, telling myself COME HERE PAHALA.

I have reached fasa dimana..katalah apa shj..tak luak pun rezeki, tak luak apa pun. Buat apa menambah sakit hati dgn orang yg ada masalah dgn diri mereka sendiri? Tak kuasa mak. 

Baiklah daku focus dgn amal ibadah daku, suami ku, anak anakku dan finding ways mcm mana nak menjemput rezeki...


1 comment:

  1. Apa cara didikan pun asalkan anak2 berada di jalan yang benar mengikut hukum dan ajaran Islam...teruskan..masing2 ada cara mendidik anak2..ada yang perlu garang/tegas..ada yang perlu berlembut...kena terima perbezaan dengan hati yang terbuka..semoga sis dan keluarga sentiasa dilimpahi rahmat Allah...

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